Last year, we celebrated Kung Hei Fat Choi dining out. When me and hubby had our Singapore trip early last year, we bought an outfit for Ayumi for Chinese New Year. We let Ayumi tried it last December but she is not in the mood of putting it on but we insisted. (Taken last Dec.…
Ayumi’s First Birthday
I remember it so well when I was preparing for Ayumi’s first birthday. I was so busy and all our friends who are staying million of miles away from us came to celebrate the special day with us. It was a big party that I can’t imagine. It was so perfect! I can still see…
Soul Searching in Cebu
I feel so empty after she was gone so we decided to visit Cebu. I visited our Mother Superior and so glad the spiritual advice. She made me strong and realize so much things. I visited Sisters of Mary School, where I graduated High School. While staying in Cebu, I got a time spending more…
Why
I always asked Why? Why all this things need to happen? I have so many questions. I even wondered if I am a bad person. I don’t know but there are so many questions coming everyday. The worst part is I don’t get any answers. Most of the time, I just left the questions hanging.…
A different Me
I am a person who plan a lot. I made my yearly plans. I love taking notes of everything I wanted to do. I love planning. In an instant, I am different now. I don’t plan anymore. I just do things that I think right in a moment. Since I lost Ayumi, I stop planning.…
A Child Loaned
A Child Loaned “I’ll lend you for a little time A child of Mine.” HE said. “For you to love the while she lives And mourn for when she’s dead. It may be six or seven year Or twenty-two or three But will you, till I call her back Take care of her for…
Trying Moments
Everyday is a new day, without you is like dreaming. Everything seems so unreal. It is always a struggle to start a new day. No matter how the sun shines every morning, it seems that I don’t appreciate it anymore. When the sun goes down and it’s time for me to sleep, I always see…
Missing Her so Much!
There are moments in my life that I just hugged her and wish that very moment that it will be like that forever because it seems so perfect. I love waking up every morning with her around, singing and greet me a good morning. I love going home because she is waiting for me and…
Bereaved Mother
“Do not judge the bereaved mother. She comes in many forms. She is breathing, but she is dying. She may look young, but inside she has become ancient. She smiles, but her heart sobs. She walks, she talks, she cooks, she cleans, she works, she IS, but she IS NOT, all at once. She…
Promises Kept
I’ve kept my promise, of what I would do. To continue to live, my life without you. I get up each morning, I get through the day struggling past tears, every step of the way. I go on with life with, a forced happy face. My heart aches badly, for what I can’t replace. I…